Hi I need a recommendation for

Hi everyone it’s been nearly 10 years since I played Minecraft online. I recently watched Ohnepixel play cytooxien.net with his friend which this server offered custom realm for hardcore shared health / damage.

Even though I could use the server and it’s amazing, I am in South East Asia and the server is in Germany so me and my friend had a hard time battling the ping whilst enjoying the game.

So I was wondering if there are any servers in Asia region that offers said realm hardcore survival with shared health / damage. Thank you!

TLDR: I need a recommendation for an Asia server with hardcore realm shared health/damage that I can play with my friend for free.